Happy people go to dark places too.

One thing I know for sure is that most of us on some level feel fake or not good enough. We are shitty to ourselves and it leaks out onto others.

As a coach, I hate the saying, ‘As a coach.’  As if, because I am a coach, I should know better, and I am not allowed to have darkness.  Coaches are humans too 😉.  Some one said to me the other day, ‘Well, as a coach, you should……” That felt mean and unfair, I felt the trigger of not being accepted just as I am.  Is a hairdresser not allowed bad har days, or a doctor a cough?

I am ok going to my dark cave, and I love the high vibes of blissful happiness, I flirt with the spectrum of emotions. I dance between them all.  It’s ok to not be ok, and it’s ok to be happy.

Happiness, to me, isn’t about flash clothes, unicorns, earning loads of money and looking like I have it all going on. That’s just me, my version, it’s ok if it’s different to yours.

To me, I know happiness is the thing inside my body that feels at peace, alive, shiny on the inside and I know it hides away some days.  I am happy with that!  If I was happy clappy every single moment, that would be my norm.  What’s up with that??  When anything becomes the norm, we forget to appreciate it. When we eat ice-cream every day, we lose the actual taste.

I urge you to resist comparing yourself to anyone, I will say it again, A N Y O N E.

Come on, you know, we only see a snap shot of other peoples lives and we many never ever truly know them.  So, stop that, work on yourself, dig the weeds out of your own garden and then stop to smell the roses.

You can spend your time in endless, chaotic noise, or you can slow down your busy mind and focus on the fact that, YOU ARE OK! No matter what. You’ll handle it.

We aren’t meant to be happy every single moment, we are here to be real, to learn, to teach, to grow.

When we have the shitty times, we can grow the most gorgeous flowers. (What do we plant our seeds in?) Think about it.

Start today to be ok, not being ok, it’s not going to last.

We Are All Broken. That’s How the Light Gets In


Love & Stardust

Caron xoxo

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Founder of LIMITLESS LIVING - NELSON NZLife Coaching, personal & business development, Relaxercise Fitness , Tribe Leader & women’s retreats.Do you know there is so much more for you and that fear and lack is holding you back?My passion is helping people create the life they really want today – not someday when… Limitless Living is about how to bring more happiness, purpose and fulfilment into your life by looking at the whole picture, starting right now!You can create a life and business you love – you can get into the driving seat of your own life. And I want to show you how.Visit http://lifecoachnelson.co.nz


  1. Michelle May 24, 2018 at 8:08 am - Reply

    I love how we’re all broken as it allows the light to come in and to dance between our emotions. Thank you x

  2. Caron June 19, 2018 at 3:01 am - Reply

    Thanks Michelle, I love that xx
    Caron xx

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